"I really like but you have to change completely"

There are many things and situations in life

 that is like the situation within a couple, when after a period of time one person say to the other:

“I like you, but you have to change your haircut

I like you but you have to change the colour of your hair

I like you but you have to change the way you dress

I like you but you have to change the music you listen to

I like you but you have to change the way you talk

Ilike you but you have to change your friends

I like you but you have your costum

I like you but you have to change your point of view

I like you but you have to change your way of thinking

I like you but you have to change your goals in life…”

And then the other person says…

“Wait a second here:

then, how can you say that you like me?”

Similar to this can happen withe Nations and Peoples as well.

the old way

the new way, so different and so, so cool

And then they will criticize if you don't go along with it, or you are not in the same mood ...and they will force their will, but in a caring, loving and compassionate fashion (and of course this means lying and cheating)

Or more explicit one